(Part 1) Recently my best friend and I got into a fight. The reason the fight started was because she told me she was going to get back with her boyfriend after he had cheated on her 5 times. I told her not to go back to him because she will just end up getting hurt and she deserves much better than him. Then she started yelling at me saying I make all her relationship decisions for her and I make all her problem my problems and that it wasn't my relationship it was hers.
(part 2) Then she said I gave bad relationship advice and I told her why did she keep coming to me with her relationship problems then? She said I always end up confusing her and stuff. I tried to keep cool and not say anything rude back but she kept coming at me with insults and I wasn’t saying anything insulting to her. This was the first fight we had and we’d only been friends for a couple months. I quickly apologized because I don’t like to have fights and she apologized too but I feel like she woundn’t have apologized if I hadn’t done so. She was being really rude to me though and she kept insulting me. I felt like that was what she really thought of me and that was what she would say behind my back. We are made up now but I don’t feel the same way about her anymore, should I continue to be her friend? The way she got angry so suddenly scared me and how she kept saying rude things to my face made me disappointed in her because I thought she wasn’t that kind of a person. But then I realized if that’s what she says to my face, what should she say behind it? I don’t know if I should continue to be her friend or not because she’s technically the one who started the fight when she rose up in anger. Thank you for reading all this and I’m sorry it was so long!
There’s a lot I want to say about this situation. Your friend probably spoke out of anger, but nonetheless, her reaction was rude and unnecessary. If you feel like she’s bringing you down and making you uncomfortable, then you can stop hanging out with her for a while. I think it’s important to let her know why though if you’re going to go through with this.
Don’t leave her in the dark, wondering why you stopped talking to her. Explain how she made you feel and show that you still care for her. Despite you not agreeing with her relationship decision, tell her that you only want happiness for her. You can also allow her to redeem herself and regain your trust, but it will take time. Good luck! :)
My whole life I never got anything lower than a C. now I'm almost done with my first year of college. Unfortunately in my math class there are 5 tests we have to take with a 70% or higher in order to pass. Must pass all 5 test. I failed my second test recently. So I basically failed the class for this semester. I'm freaking out. I never failed a class. It's gonna show up on my transcript now. I have to transfer college for the fall. I'm afraid that when I apply to transfer they won't take me.

I think that grade system is so silly. If you fail the first test, you know you’ll fail the class and thus, have no motivation or purpose to keep trying.

At this point, it’s best to talk to your professor and ask for some leeway. Maybe there’s some extra credit you can do? Maybe he’ll be willing to average your grade if you ace the next few exams? Show him that you want to pass the class and is willing to put in the hard work it takes. If you’re sincere, he may give you another chance.

Even if you fail, it’s not the end of the world. Re-take the class in the summer and get a better grade. Show that you’re not a quitter and let your future college know that too in your application.

Good luck!



One of my favorite posts on tumblr

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One of my favorite posts on tumblr

this is perfect omg




this is so INTENTS

i wanna do this

Are we just gonna ignore that pun


[Caption: Health is never a measure of human worth, written over photos of Teddy Roosevelt, RJ Mitte, Miles Davis, Helen Keller, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Michael J. Fox, Stephen Hawking, and Lucille Ball]

  • Teddy Roosevelt, former president with epilepsy and asthma
  • R.J. Mitte, actor with cerebral palsy
  • Miles Davis, jazz musician with sickle cell disease
  • Helen Keller, writer and social activist with hearing and visual impairment
  • Franklin D. Roosevelt, former president with polio
  • Michael J. Fox, actor with Parkinson’s disease
  • Stephen Hawking, physicist with ALS (Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis)
  • Lucille Ball, actress with rheumatoid arthritis

When you use phrases like, “as long as you’re healthy” these are just a few of the people that your language is excluding.  No one owes you health.  Being healthy does not make you a good person, and being unhealthy does not make you a bad person.  The state of a person’s body does not reflect their soul, their mind, or their worth as a human being.

How do you know if you're an extrovert or an introvert? I'm using outgoing at school and I have friends in all of my classes and never usually lonely. I don't find it awkward talking to my classmates or people around my age. Heck, I can even go up to a stranger and start a conversation. But when it comes to parties or put me somewhere where I don't know anybody, I get shy and quiet. Same thing at family get together I get so quiet and shy around my cousins/uncles and I get lonely.

Some people are extraverts when they’re sociable and outgoing, but introverts can be the same. They can get along well with others and strike up conversations anywhere. They’re not shy; they just find it more rewarding to be alone or with close group of friends.

You can be the life of the party all week long, but if at the end, you feel like you need to be alone for a bit and recharge, then you’re more likely an introvert. An highly extroverted person is energized from social gatherings and interactions, not drained by it. During one of my business courses, we discussed this topic in class and I think this is a good way to examine whether you’re more of an introvert or extravert. Next time you go to a party, think about how you feel afterward. Truth is, all of us carry aspects of both. :)

If you want to know your personality type, you can take the Myers Briggs Test:

It may not necessarily be valid, but it is reliable. That means that if you take it 5-10 years from now, you’ll most likely get the same results.

Is marketing a good major?

It depends on a lot of factors… but overall, it would be a good major if it’s something you enjoy and understand.

Hi! I have a guy I really loved so much. He's the one I don't want to lose. :") and after he hurt me/left me, I didn't talk to him for a few months so I see him then he usually ignored me. Last Sunday I saw him with his friends at restaurant unexpectedly. He saw me and looked like surprised and gonna say hey. But I ignored and walked away. Then I looked at him again and he looked unhappy. O.O he didn't come back to talk to me. What I do? :/

What do you want to do? Do you want to rekindle the relationship? If so, then make the effort to talk to him and start from there. It seems like you’re really fond of him… but if you’ve been hurt in the past and you know he’s no good for you, then it’s best to keep your distance.